How's Married Life Going For you? 

Sometimes life can be so unfair, in as much as I cannot make too many excuses for myself and the choices I’ve made, I just think the whole idea of marriage for me is so complicated. My husband is always busy and I’m a very vulnerable person. I mean, who doesn’t like attention from their spouse but that’s an expensive currency in my marriage. This made me seek for alternatives out there, and that’s how I met the love of my life. Yes, I’m married but I met the love of my life when I was married. 

And how has that been going?

It was going well at first, I mean I was getting sexually satisfied which made my day amazing and kept my muscles relaxed. It also heightened my relationship with him and apart from the fact that he helps keep my engine oiled, he’s a very good conversationalist. The way he listens to me and pays attention, his genuine compliments about my body, he just knows how to make a woman be in her energy. But he recently got married and he has been spending so much time with his new family. I don’t have a problem with him being married but he needs to live up to my own expectations too. 

What’s the resolution between you guys? 

What can I say, he reached out to me recently saying that he'd like to cut things off. My heart is a tad broken about this and I don’t know what to do? I do not want to go back to being sexually frustrated and feeling lonely. I really don’t want him to focus on his family and I’m wondering why he can’t manage the both of us. I mean I have money and I do not need any financial support from him, all he has to do is simply be a good boy. In all, I hope this gets resolved soon.